I didn’t disappear—I hit a limit

March 26, 2026 I didn’t plan to go quiet. I always think I’ll push through. Keep showing up. Stay consistent. And then my body makes the decision for me. The last couple of weeks have been rough. Pain that doesn’t let up. The kind that follows you into the night and then meets you again in the morning. The kind that makes even small things feel like too much. So I got quiet. Not because I didn’t care. Not because this space doesn’t matter to me. Because I physically didn’t have it. And I know...
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You don’t see me behind closed doors

February 24, 2026 This week on the podcast, Natasha said something that stayed with me. She talked about looking fine. Functioning. Showing up. Having the husband, the kids, the career. And still texting 988 because she needed someone to talk to. She said, “You don’t see me behind closed doors. You don’t see me on the floor crying.” That line sits heavy. So many of us live there. We carry diagnoses that took years to name. We carry pain that never made sense. We carry mental health struggles...
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I don’t think independence means what I thought it did

February 19, 2026 This past week? A blur of appointments and overthinking. And tell me why one tiny new symptom can send my brain into a full documentary series called “Everything That Could Possibly Be Wrong.” I’m calm for about twelve minutes. Then I’m googling. Then I’m bargaining with God. Then I’m pretending I’m fine while internally drafting my will. Dramatic? Maybe. Also… relatable. I keep circling this word: independence. I used to be proud of that. I can handle it. I don’t need help....
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I stopped pretending I'm fine...

Some weeks don’t need fixing. They need honesty. This week, I didn’t have a hopeful bow to tie around things. My body has been loud. The waiting has been heavy. And pretending I’m fine has taken more energy than I have. So I didn’t soften it. If you’ve been trying to stay positive while quietly falling apart, this is your permission to stop performing. You’re not dramatic. You’re not weak. You’re responding to a body and a life that are asking a lot right now. This episode isn’t polished or...
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Chronic Illness Pacing Tips That Actually Work: NEW EPISODE from The Invisible Illness Club

Chronic Illness Pacing Tips That Actually Work Published on January 14, 2026 Learn how to pace with chronic illness without guilt, shame, or burnout. Practical chronic illness pacing tips to help you rest, recover, and live with more energy. The post Chronic Illness Pacing Tips That Actually Work first appeared on The Invisible Illness Club - Chronic Illness Support. Read more...
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When your body doesn't feel safe

Happy New Year! I don't know about y'all but 2025 was a rough year here. With all new health scares and unknowns, our year was packed with scans, tests, pin cushion lab appointments, and waiting, lots of waiting. Unfortunately we are starting off 2026 the same way, but I am hopeful that after this first month or so of tests, scans, appointments, and pin cushion sessions, that we will have the final answers to all the questions we have and a way forward to make life at least a little more...
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🎃 Spoonie Halloween: The Tricks We Skip + the Treats We Deserve

Hey Reader, Let’s be real — Halloween hits different when you live with chronic illness. Our “tricks” look more like:👻 Trying to rest while our body still feels haunted by fatigue.💀 Saying “boo” to overdoing it (even when FOMO creeps in).🕯️ Dodging sugar crashes, loud parties, and fluorescent lighting. But here’s the good part — we still get treats.The cozy kind. The soul kind. The ones we actually need. This year, I’m skipping the spooky chaos and making space for a softer kind of magic:...
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When the world feels dark, here’s how we keep going

Hey Reader, Over the last week, I have been trying to put my thoughts and feelings into words. The news of Charlie Kirk's assasination, the death of Iryna Zarutska, and the most recent school shooting, has not only been heartbreaking but has shown us how sharp the divide in this world has become. The world right now feels dark, scary, and unsafe. But we believe in a God who sees and who knows. A God who doesn't call us to hatred and retaliation, but to faith, hope, and love. Love is...
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Summer’s over and I need a nap

Weekly Newsletter Let’s talk honestly about life, faith, and chronic illness. Hey Reader, Anyone else feel like summer “vacation” was anything but restful? I swear my body thinks it just ran a marathon… and all I did was survive July. If I’m being honest, I went into summer with plans. Plans for fun, connection, maybe even a little productivity. Instead, my energy was like a toddler with scissors — unpredictable, messy, and a little dangerous to my sanity. Now here we are, staring at the...
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